When we get nervous, we make excuses. We make excuses not to love ourselves or take care of ourselves. Sometimes life is just busy, we are too crazy at work, or always have to drive someone SOMEWHERE. Sometimes it’s more important to spend time with our spouse. We also use excuses like “I want to lose 15 lbs first!” and “I just don’t have the money right now!”. I wanted to write this to show you all that no matter the excuse, you CAN do it! Let me show you that no matter the excuse, you are worthy of self love!

“𝐼 𝒹𝑜𝓃’𝓉 𝒽𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝑒𝓃𝑜𝓊𝑔𝒽 𝓉𝒾𝓂𝑒 𝒻𝑜𝓇 𝓂𝓎𝓈𝑒𝓁𝒻”

It’s also important to remember that if you aren’t taking care of yourself mentally, you’re not going to be able to handle taking care of everyone else, which makes sense but is actually much harder said than done! Sometimes I am the WORST at making sure I am giving myself mental health breaks and that’s why I think it’s so important to share this with you all. I make the same excuses as above and sometimes I need someone to look me in the face and say, “SLOW DOWN, give yourself a break, breath for a minute!”

At a boudoir shoot you are able to breath, and love yourself for a few hours. Think of all the energy you’ll save on a daily basis if you stop comparing yourself to others, or stop worrying about what other people think of how you look. You get to see where your beauty really comes from and this lifts such a huge mental weight.

You need to take time for yourself, why not spend it having an amazing time and getting glammed up for once?

“𝐼’𝓂 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝓌𝒽𝑒𝓇𝑒 𝐼 𝓌𝒶𝓃𝓉 𝓉𝑜 𝒷𝑒 𝓌𝑒𝒾𝑔𝒽𝓉 𝓌𝒾𝓈𝑒/𝐼 𝒹𝑜𝓃’𝓉 𝒻𝒾𝓉 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓂𝑒𝒹𝒾𝒶’𝓈 𝒾𝒹𝑒𝒶 𝑜𝒻 𝒶 𝑔𝑜𝑜𝒹 𝑒𝓃𝑜𝓊𝑔𝒽 𝓈𝒾𝓏𝑒”

Did you know that the body type portrayed in advertising as the ideal is possessed naturally by only 5% of American females? ONLY FIVE percent.

I will say this over and over again (and sorry, not sorry if you’ve heard it before), but WHY do you have to be a certain size to LOVE yourself? WHY do you have to fit a strangers messed up idea of a perfect body to LOVE your own body? WHY are you comparing your size to everyone else, when no 2 women are the same!

I think it’s amazing to have goals and want to get healthy, but does that mean you have to hate your body to do those things? Absolutly NOT! You should love yourself every step of the way. Be proud of where you are so that you can be proud of where you’re going. Have a boudoir shoot to celebrate where you are now, and then have one when you lose that 15 lbs to celebrate how far you’ve come!

“𝐼 𝓃𝑒𝓋𝑒𝓇 𝒻𝑒𝑒𝓁 𝓈𝑒𝓍𝓎 𝑜𝓇 𝓈𝑒𝓃𝓈𝓊𝒶𝓁 𝒶𝓃𝓎𝓂𝑜𝓇𝑒 𝓈𝑜 𝒶 𝒷𝑜𝓊𝒹𝑜𝒾𝓇 𝓈𝒽𝑜𝑜𝓉 𝓂𝓊𝓈𝓉 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒷𝑒 𝒻𝑜𝓇 𝓂𝑒.”

WRONG.

This excuse is actually the EXACT reason you SHOULD do a boudoir shoot.

Often times we lose touch with our femininity or sexuality when life gets crazy because of health/kids/work. It happens a lot and it is absolutely normal and ok! A great way to find this side of ourselves again is to have a boudoir shoot done to out that spark back in us. I can show you that you have that inside you somewhere, and it might even ignite a spark between you and your significant other as well!

Another thing to remember is that you don’t HAVE to wear super sexy clothing/ lingerie. If you feel like this doesn’t show your personality, then there are so many other outfit ideas. If you need ideas, I will gladly talk to you about them or you can check out our blog on finding outfits here!

“𝒜 𝒷𝑜𝓊𝒹𝑜𝒾𝓇 𝓈𝒽𝑜𝑜𝓉 𝒾𝓈 𝒶𝓃 𝒾𝓃𝓋𝑒𝓈𝓉𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝐼 𝒹𝑜𝓃’𝓉 𝒽𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝒶𝓁𝓁 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓂𝑜𝓃𝑒𝓎 𝓇𝒾𝑔𝒽𝓉 𝓃𝑜𝓌.”

Yes, a boudoir shoot IS an investment. It is also an investment in yourself. You are investing in your well-being and confidence as well! We do offer payment plans! In order to book your shoot, there is a retainer, and after that we can set up your payment plan for the remaining so that it might be easier to book a shoot! If you have any questions about our payment plans, shoot us an email while setting up your shoot!